Updated: Jul 12
and why it matters.
We hear it all of the time.
Become the Love that you want to see in the world.
But what does this actually mean?
And furthermore, how do we do it?
It is undeniable that there is not one objective way for all souls to become transmitters of Love.
However, what I do know is that love begins with us.
Loving ourselves has to be one of the most challenging things in this life.
Through lifetimes of karma and conditioning, we forget that our souls are in essence, Love.
Love is the energy transmitted through the feminine and the Mother archetype, but it is also the experience of inner union, integration of light and shadow, of masculine and feminine energies within an individual.
Love is not one thing, it is known in many shades, textures and expressions.
Through the full range of human emotions.
In light and dark.
Whilst this force can shapeshift and take on many forms, the Mother is what many humans know as love through the way we are brought into the world and sustained by her love, her energy.
Be it Mother Earth or our biological or maternal caregivers, the mother's energy is inherent to life.
There are many experiences that have severed us from this Love.
The list is too long, and being the woman I am, I would much rather bring awareness to how we can meet the pain, alchemise it, and rise in our wholeness.
The path I am here to guide others along is one of Love.
I introduce women to their archetypal maiden; to the little girl inside of them that is more often than not dying to be seen, heard, held and loved.
I sit with them in their pain.
I stay and model this for them to while they build the strength to stay too.
I witness them alchemise it, and piece by piece, rise into their wholeness.
Love is integration, an acceptance, a forgiveness, a true sense of union, of oneness.
I say piece by piece, because stepping into spiritual motherhood is slow and cyclical.
It cannot, and must not be rushed.
Like any woman stepping into biological motherhood, you can see that just because she has the baby she doesn’t automatically become the mother the moment she gives birth.
As her child grows, she grows.
She grows in her capacity to Love.
This is no different when working with the soul.
This is why there are no set outcomes, clear results, because the expression of Love is infinite.
It moves in all directions, works in mysterious ways, and yet somehow has the ability to move us, heal us and make the impossible possible.
The emphasis here is on movement.
What does not move stagnates, and much like anything in nature that drifts away from the divine blueprint, it rots, erodes, and has the potential to become toxic and lethal.
I see this in the work I do, because the subconscious wounded maiden program running with my clients requires a period of acknowledging the pain that this deviation has caused unknowingly. It takes time to clean up the system, and slowly bring the ecosystem back to health. It is slow necessary work that ultimately leads to the expression of the woman's essence, but that also gives her the confidence to flow with the Truth, with life.
This inner work of becoming the archetypal mother to our inner maiden is important, because it gives us the necessary tools to step out of the limiting, negative narratives, and embrace our gifts through love.
This work heals the stagnant, rejected, unmet places in us desperate for love and recognition, and because we begin to give it to ourselves, we can then become of soul service to the world.
So that the waters of our feminine heart can flow with the clear transmission of what is True.
The maiden in you is calling out for love in the same way the world is.
“As within, so without.”
When a woman steps in the frequency of Love, of the archetypal mother, she is simultaneously stepping into her purpose. She aligns with the wisdom and within her bones.
This is what I mean when you hear my say in my writing “to be the Love and share the gifts you have.”
Because the world needs you.
To be the woman your little one needed.
To be and move as flow, in motion, and with integrity.
This is what it means to create a legacy of Love.
A force so strong it heals one woman, one family, one community, until it reaches across the world. I know that I will never see the outcome of this work. That I will be long gone before this comes to be. But at the same time, I can feel it alive, pulsing, present, every day.
Choosing to be Love, in my own life, matters.
It is a choice that must be chosen daily.
It is the choice to feel my body's sensations.
It is the choice to feel emotions.
It is the choice to let the waters of my heart, my essence run clear and with intention.
It is the choice to meet and express the Truth with those I'm in relationship with.
The work I offer doesn’t produce overnight results that are tangible, as our current culture would prefer.
It produces results that are felt intimately and are as unique as the woman I am mentoring.
This is why it is miraculous. This is what I mean when I say it changes your being.
It cuts right to the essence - of the Latin origin - esse - “to be”.
The world needs women to be Love, in every single expression.
Let this work transform your being.
Let it unravel you, and slowly weave you together in ways that you cannot conceive or control.